The Unspoken Secret

How I’m writing my third novel.

I never choose a story. The story chooses me. During my two writing classes at Godfrey Street Community House I always have at least twenty minutes stream of consciousness writing. We call it a splurge.  The idea is to knock the critic off your shoulder and with no thoughts about grammar or punctuation you write whatever comes into your head.

Doing this form of uncensored writing with other members of our group frees me from fear and perfectionism and the aim is to grow as a writer. It may not be my best work but the idea is to write from the heart.

So what has kept bubbling to the surface of my writing mind? I find I am having great fun writing my third book. Every time I put pen to paper, or tap away on my computer I find myself writing about two aging hairdressers and one has multiple affairs. However, the main focus of this book is revealed in the working title The Unspoken Secret. What else could it be about apart from old age. As an elderly friend said, ‘When you turn eighty…God help you.’

After reaching three score years and ten it is impossible to avoid the signs. The affects of gravity are everywhere and everything about you is dragged downwards. Your skin is wrinkled, you lose an inch in height and you have to wear glasses if you want to see anything clearly. But would you have believed that one day you would be old? That it is a fact of life? No. It is the unspoken secret

The only way to cope with the stark  reality is to make fun of it and simply get on with living.

The Senility Prayer. 

Grant me the senility  to forget the people I never liked, the good fortune to run into the ones I do, and the eyesight to tell the difference.

I am having so much fun writing this book and by having time for me I am able to relate to others more fully. We recently flew to the Gold Coast to spend time with our two grandchildren. Aged ten and seven, Tahlia and Caxton lead active lives.

     

I watched them run around netball courts, soccer fields and football grounds and reveled in their athletic abilities

I clapped and cheered when the Broadbeach State School Choir won their way into the finals in August.

They are growing up so fast and one day they too will suddenly find that years have gone and it will be time for them to begin to understand the unspoken secret. I hope my book will help them to laugh at and find the funny side, plus the benefits of growing old. After all…who would complain about growing old when many people don’t have the privilege.

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4 responses to “The Unspoken Secret

  1. Thanks for this message Glenice.
    You are doing well with your writing.
    Congratulations.
    I have been too busy with community work to have energy for writing,though I often think about trying.
    Talking about age,I will be 84 in two weeks time.
    Age reminds me of Peter my Medical Professor son sharing his view of old age.According to him the only way not to get old is to die young.
    So what is our choice???
    Keep writing
    Much love
    Susan

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  2. Lovely to see you here, Susan. I always remember other, older residents of my parent’s retirement village saying to Dad. ‘Don’t get old, Frank’. His reply never varied, ‘It’s sure better than the other option’. Another thing I remember is when they would say, ‘How are you today? He would reply, ‘Have you got an hour?’. No wonder I sit at this computer snickering as I poke fun at growing old. It’s obviously heredity and I can’t help myself

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  3. thanks Jennie. Loved your post about the American national anthem

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